Show notesWords of Wisdom 140: On False EmpowermentIn this episode, Josh explores the concept of false empowerment and its potential pitfalls. Reflecting on experiences of pain, trauma, and rejection, he discusses how the ego can drive change in destructive ways. Josh emphasizes the dangers of weaponizing boundaries and living from a place of resentment, explaining the importance of surrendering to God for true, healthy transformation. He includes teachings from Jesus in Matthew 7 and insights from Richard Rohr to underline the value of humility, letting go, and unlearning. The episode concludes with reflective questions to guide prayers and journaling on ways to avoid false empowerment and genuinely depend on God.00:00 Introduction to False Empowerment00:11 The Dangers of False Empowerment00:29 The Ego's Role in False Empowerment00:52 Weaponizing Boundaries and Seeking Justice01:16 The Consequences of False Empowerment01:21 Spiritual Teachings on Surrender01:52 Practical Steps to True Empowerment02:31 Biblical Wisdom on Judgment03:30 Reflections and Questions04:09 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsAbout Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT• As a Psychoherapist Josh helps people overcome their greatest struggles.•Founder and CEO of Great Oaks Collective, and it's flagship program Overcome, a 10-Week virtual Intensive Outpatient Program for Christian couples experiencing sexual betrayal and addiction. www.greatoakscollective.com. • Sign up to receive Josh's weekly email newsletter, Words of Wisdom. ​---LinksRichard Rohr, ​Breathing Underwater: Spirituality and the Twelve Steps​---Support this podcast by buying a book through one of the links above.Support the podcast