What happens when your mother chooses a religion over you, and then suddenly decides she wants back in your life?In this unapologetically raw episode of Pissy But Pretty, Emily opens up about the gut-punch moment her estranged mother, a devout Jehovah’s Witness, tried to reconnect after 23 years of silence. What unfolds is a brutally honest look at religious trauma, manipulation disguised as forgiveness, and the lifelong scars of conditional love.This isn’t a redemption story, it’s a reckoning.What You’ll LearnHow religious systems manipulate guilt and emotional obedience under the guise of forgivenessThe emotional toll of disfellowshipping and what it means to be exiled from your own familyHow narcissistic parents weaponize silence, gifts, and “God’s will” to control adult childrenThe fine line between protecting yourself and seeking closureWhy humor, therapy, and community are survival tools for breaking free from religious and familial conditioningEpisode Highlights:00:00 – The chaos begins: Live from Wisconsin, aging, and no-sleeve confessions03:10 – Emily shares her story of being disfellowshipped by the Jehovah’s Witnesses07:48 – The shocking “knock on the door” from her mom’s old friend13:30 – Manipulation wrapped in an apology: decoding the text from “Mom”19:22 – Narcissism, religion, and guilt: why “be patient with me” is emotional bait25:05 – Therapy, triggers, and the fear of reopening old wounds32:11 – Sisterhood, shared trauma, and the power of being seen39:10 – Silence as a boundary versus silence as punishmentMeet the Hosts:Heather and Emily—two middle-aged women who’ve lived a thousand messy lives, bring brutal honesty, dark humor, and hard-won wisdom to the mic. They’re not preaching; they’re purging.Tools, Frameworks, or Strategies Mentioned:Preparing vs. Protecting Paradox – The difference between raising from fear and preparing from loveThe Manipulation Playbook – Guilt, Gaslight, and “God Told Me To” as tools of controlSilence as Power – How withholding response becomes an act of resistance against narcissistic behaviorClosing Insight or CTA“Silence isn’t the silent treatment, it’s a boundary.”This episode will hit home for anyone recovering from toxic families, high-control religions, or narcissistic manipulation. Listen, laugh, cry, and remember: healing doesn’t mean inviting the pain back in.Subscribe to our YouTube channelFollow us on Facebook