In this very special epsidoe, host Jessie Sage brings on her life partner, PJ Patella-Rey. They have a heartfelt conversation about the challenges and dynamics of their relationship. PJ talks about their history in sex work and experiences in the industry, grappling with trauma, stigma, and the emotional demands of sex work, while also expressing gratitude for the financial stability it offers. They also share their perspective on navigating the complexities of being in a relationship with a full service sex worker, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries, understanding each other's challenges, and providing mutual support through life's difficulties. Guest Recommendations: Books: Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships, by Jessica Fern and David Cooley Music: Chappell Roan St Vincent  Janelle Monae People:  Guest: Dr. PJ Patella-Rey Host: Jessie Sage Producer: Emily Foster Music: Benjamin J Benamati Sponsor: Assembly Four You can support our podcast on Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/sapiotextual