Whether it’s just a flicker of red in the distance, or it’s suddenly waving violently in your face, the dreaded "red flag" of modern dating is not always easy to spot. In this episode, Evelyn chats to relationship expert Shahzeen Shivdasani about what a red flag actually is, what it isn’t, and how understanding the difference will help you date better, love deeper and have important conversations when you need to.Show notes: Evelyn Sharma's Instagram handle: @evelyn_sharma Shahzeen Shivdasani’s handle: @avec_shaz Shahzeen’s book: Love, Lust & Lemons: Your go-to guide for relationships, dating & everything in-between! Sound Engineer: Gerd Georgii Project Manager: Sonja Kaun-Trenkler Editorial Support: Shashank Bhargava, Anant Nath Sharma, Khyati Rajvanshi Executive Producer: Melanie von Marschalck, DW Life & Style