Welcome back! Last time, we delved into the importance of understanding our centers in relationships. Today, we're building on that by exploring how our centers influence communication by breaking down the difference between perspective-taking and understanding our centers in relationships.Perspective-taking is about seeing things from another's viewpoint, influenced by mood and context. Meanwhile, our centers guide our decisions consistently, regardless of mood. We naturally invest our time and energy into our center focus, assuming others should prioritize the same. But recognizing our center and aligning it with our partner's reveals how it shapes our choices, fostering compassion. Shifting the focus to shared values creates a solid foundation for decision-making, avoiding conflicts over priorities.About the Host:Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.Links:https://sparkedforever.com/https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever  Thanks for listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the podcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.Leave us an Apple Podcasts reviewRatings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.