What if the biggest lie you’ve ever told… is the one you tell yourself every day?In this explosive episode, I sit down with Harinder Singh Pelia — writer, creator, entrepreneur, and author of Who TF Are You — for one of the most honest conversations I’ve ever had on this podcast.We go brutally deep into identity, self-discovery, emotional honesty, authenticity, internet culture, childhood narratives, and why most of us don’t actually know who we are.This is the definitive long-form conversation on being human in 2025.If you’ve ever felt lost, confused, disconnected, or stuck between the person you want to be and the person you pretend to be — this episode will hit you hard.TIMESTAMPS00:00 – Who is the real “you”? Why identity breaks so easily today4:10 – Harinder’s journey: writing Who TF Are You and building his philosophy10:32 – How childhood stories shape adult identity16:20 – Why people escape from authenticity21:40 – How to confront the lies you tell yourself27:50 – The internet & performance identity: are we real anymore?33:15 – Why self-awareness doesn’t equal self-honesty39:22 – The power of naming your real emotions45:05 – How to rewrite your identity without losing yourselfHarinder Singh Pedia is a writer, entrepreneur, and creator known for his sharp, introspective take on identity, self-discovery, modern relationships, emotional literacy, and personal truth.He is the author of “Who TF Are You”, a book on breaking old stories and finding the real self.Why This Episode Matters - Because identity is the biggest crisis of our generation.We are self-aware but not self-honest.Connected but lonely.Performing but not expressing.Surrounded by choices but unsure of who we’re choosing for.Harinder cuts through the noise — no jargon, no philosophy jargon — just raw insights and deeply practical truths.If you're on a personal reset, self-discovery journey, healing phase, or trying to understand yourself better…you will replay this episode multiple times.Tags: Harinder Singh Pelia podcast, Harinder Singh Pelia interview, Who TF Are You book, self discovery podcast India, identity crisis 2025, authenticity podcast, emotional intelligence India, modern identity, self honesty conversation. Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts & more: https://linktr.ee/themostseriouspod Subscribe to The Most Serious Podcast for more conversations on identity, creativity, and the psychology behind being human..