Most people drift through life without ever realizing they're doing it. They wake up one day feeling empty, stressed, or unfulfilled — not because they made one big mistake… but because they never made intentional decisions at all. In this episode, I break down the difference between living by default and living by design. I share the story of someone who looked successful on the surface but felt completely disconnected from their own life — until one moment of awareness changed everything. This conversation is about choosing your direction, building systems, establishing boundaries, and understanding that fulfillment comes from a life you create… not one you inherit. If you've been drifting, this episode will show you how to take back control — one decision, one habit, one step at a time. Key Topics: The difference between drifting through life and designing your life with intention How small daily decisions create massive long-term fulfillment Why clarity, boundaries, and systems shape your future The dangerous cost of living someone else's dream instead of your own  Follow along @jacobemery44 Ready to UNLOCK YOUR GREATNESS? ⬇️ Download the Free Break Barriers Blueprint and learn more at jacobemery.com #LifeByDesign #IronAndInfrastructurePodcast #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #LiveWithIntention #JacobEmery #SelfDevelopment #BlueprintForLife