On this deeply meaningful episode of The Secrets of Being Podcast, I’m honored to sit with Jennifer R. Levin, PhD—a workplace trauma strategist, licensed therapist, author, and host of Untethered: Healing the Pain from a Sudden Death. This conversation felt especially important because we’re talking about the kind of loss that changes everything in an instant—the losses you never see coming and never get to say goodbye to.Jennifer shares how her work with sudden and traumatic loss wasn’t something she set out to do, but something that found her through repeated patterns she began noticing in the people she served. Again and again, she saw the same wish surface: “I wish someone had prepared me.” That insight became the foundation for Traumatic Grief Solutions and the work she now does with individuals, families, and workplaces—both before and after sudden or unexpected loss.We talk about the difference between anticipatory grief and sudden loss, and how profoundly different the body and nervous system respond when there is no warning. Jennifer explains how sudden loss creates shock, disorientation, and a deep sense of unsafety, and why stabilization and structure are essential in the earliest days of grief. We explore how healing doesn’t mean fixating on how someone died, but learning how to grieve who they were and what they meant to us.Jennifer walks us through her approach to assessment, grounding, and helping people feel safe again—sometimes for the first time since their world shattered. She also shares the practices that help her stay grounded in this work, reminding us that those who hold space for grief must also tend to themselves.We spend time talking about post-traumatic growth—the idea that while trauma changes us, it doesn’t have to define us. That it’s possible to move through something devastating and still grow into a deeper, more connected version of ourselves. I share how my own relationship with fear shifted after my dad transitioned, including how I made the decision to stop letting fear limit how I live.Jennifer reflects on her time as the executive director of a volunteer hospice, where everything was offered freely, and how that experience taught her the true power of connection, presence, and simply being with someone in their hardest moments. We talk about faith, continued bonds, and what Jennifer beautifully calls “presence within absence”—the ways our loved ones remain with us even after they’re gone.We also touch on the healing support of animals, rituals, and love itself. Jennifer credits her dogs with being steady companions through grief, and we both come back to the same truth: love is why we’re here, and love is what we carry with us through every lifetime.This episode is for anyone navigating sudden loss, supporting someone through grief, or wondering how to feel safe in a world that no longer feels familiar. Jennifer’s wisdom, compassion, and lived experience offer both comfort and clarity, reminding us that healing doesn’t mean forgetting—it means learning how to live again.With love,DawnP.s. You can connect with Jennifer here: https://therapyheals.com/