Most Women Don’t Want Great Men

This piece explores the lesser known emotional side of Napoleon Bonaparte, revealing how one of history’s greatest figures struggled deeply with love, attachment and betrayal.Beyond battles and empires, it reflects on Napoleon’s personal writings and experiences to uncover uncomfortable truths about power, vulnerability, and romantic dynamics.Through his relationship with Josephine, the narrative examines why extraordinary men are often rejected in favor of safety, familiarity, and predictability. It connects Napoleon’s reflections to timeless psychological patterns in relationships, ambition, and fear of untamed strength, offering a mirror for the modern man striving for greatness.This is not a celebration of resentment or blame, but a sober reflection on the cost of exceptional ambition, the loneliness of greatness, and the emotional realities faced by those who refuse to shrink themselves to be loved.